Cool Sex-Ed Books From Around The World: Part 1
Sex-Ed Toilet Paper
Made by Sowledge; a company started by Nanase Tsuruta, a 28-year-old who said she wanted to provide basic sex education in daily life
Written in Japanese for elementary school aged children (5 years and up)
Why this book matters
Based on the perspective that “sex-education is part of everyday life.”
Combats taboos and hesitation in seeking out sex-ed, by making information easy to access in privacy.
Aims to help children safeguard themselves from sexual abuse, by teaching them to identify inappropriate behaviour, and by teaching sexual etiquette.
Created in consultation with doctors and other specialists in line with UNESCO’s guidelines.
Attractive comic book style illustrations and writing in easy language (for example, “bed of blood,” instead of “endometrium”).
The janhit me jaari jaankari includes:
sexuality, menstruation and ejaculation, sexual consent, sexual abuse and violence.
Mizudo Elementary School was the first at that level in Japan to introduce the toilet paper on a wide scale.
Later, a Japanese municipality, Amagasaki, also decided to use the toilet roll design.
An excerpt from the book:
Here’s the translation for the above image, frame by frame.
Ejaculation?
At times like waking up in the morning or getting sexually excited, the penis gets hard. This is called erection.
When the penis is stimulated white liquid comes out. (Sometimes it happens even when the penis is not stimulated while sleeping) This is called ejaculation and the white liquid is called semen. Semen contains sperm, which are the seeds of life.
Sometimes sperm are contained in the colourless liquid that comes out before ejaculation.
There’s nothing odd about having strong sexual desires - it's normal. But don’t do things that the other person doesn’t like and don’t touch your sex organs in public.
“As it stands, whether children have access to accurate information depends on the awareness and economic situation of each family, so I think we need to create an environment where everyone can receive the correct information.”
-From an interview with Tsuruta in Vogue Japan
Awesome Sex-ed Books Around the World-Part 2
A vintage children book from 1968, with dreamy papercut images, Like a book of fairy tales.
How Babies Are Made
Authors: Steven Schepp and Andrew Andry
Illustrator: Blake Hampton
Except instead of "once upon a time," this book begins with, "This is a story about you…”
What's Awesome About It
Like a bed time tale told to a child, the book feels like a hug !
It tells children how babies are made in nature - (plant, animal and people babies) gently and pyaar se... For example: When it talks about cutting the umbilical cord, it reassures children "it did not hurt."
And araam se, as stories do, it makes reproduction and birth a part of everyday imagination
Here's An Excerpt From The Book
"The sperm, which come from the father's testicles, are sent into the mother through his penis. To do this, the father and the mother lie down facing each other, and the father places his penis in the mother's vagina. Unlike plants and animals, when human mothers and fathers create a new baby they are sharing a very personal and special relationship.”
Earlier in this series :
The Japanese Sex-Ed Book On Toilet Paper
Next Week:
Its Perfectly Normal
Cool Sex-Ed Books From Around The World- Part 3
It's Perfectly Normal-Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, Gender, and Sexual Health
By ROBIE H. HARRIS and MICHAEL EMBERLEY
A sex-ed book that talks to kids as kids want to be spoken to. Bole toh? Unflinching, direct, and without the tadka of taboo and shame-shame.
WHAT'S AWESOME ABOUT IT!
No matter what the topic - the book says it like it is.
Here is an example :
"Masturbation is touching or rubbing any of your body's sex organs for pleasure - because it feels good. One everyday term for masturbating is 'playing with yourself."
"Some people think that masturbation is wrong or harmful. And some religions call masturbation a sin. But masturbating cannot hurt you. And it does not result in a pregnancy or in getting and passing on infections spread through sexual contact."
The book updates itself regularly, to include topics such as sexting and Internet safety - isn't that cool?
JAHAN HONESTY, WAHAN GATEKEEPERS.
Critics claim the book is "pornographic" aka not safe for children. (But socho - is all conversation about sex automatically porn?)
One parent wrote a letter to a newspaper declaring that topics such as masturbation, multiple sexual orientations and gender identities, oral and anal sex, etc SHOULD NOT BE IN CHILDREN'S BOOKS!
Writer Robbie H Harris' response?"To me it wasn't controversial. It's what every child has a right to know.”
EARLIER IN THIS SERIES:
1. The JAPANESE sex-ed book printed on TOILET PAPER
2. HOW BABIES ARE MADE
NEXT WEEK:
The MUSLIMAH SEX MANUAL: A Halal Guide to Mind Blowing Sex
Text on the card reads:
Awesome Sex-ed Books Around the World-Part 4
The Muslimah Sex Manual- A Halal Guide to Mind Blowing Sex
A sex manual designed for the practising Muslim heterosexual woman, in the tone of advice from an elder sister
Text on the card reads:
WHAT'S AWESOME ABOUT IT
Immensely practical, not just theorybaaz! The author draws on personal experiences to share sex tips like an older sister or friend.
From sex positions, to dirty talk, to ideas on "how to be a freak in bed," the book has all the masala for a spicy sex life, while being observant, or as the book would say, "staying halal." Using pleasure to shrug away stereotypes and fear FTW!
What's awesomest? The book has been so impactful that men have asked the author to write a book for them, on how they can please their wives in bed. Hai na win-win?
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WHERE THERE'S PLEASURE CAN CRITICS BE FAR BEHIND?
Some folks have criticised the book saying the author is encouraging promiscuity and objectifying Muslim women.
The author has chosen to stay anonymous. She says, this is not just to avoid being harassed by conservative critics, but also, because, "By separating my real self from the book, people are forced to deal with the content.”
Text on the card reads:
SNEAK A PEEK INTO THE BOOK:
"Start with foreplay until you're wet. Have him insert at least two fingers inside of you before moving on to his penis.
Once you're relaxed and comfortable, guide him inside. It should NOT require a lot of force. If you can't get it in, pull out, go back to foreplay, and focus on him fingering you. Then try again. If it still won't go in, see a doctor.”
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Check the other three books in AOI's Awesome Sex-Ed Books Around The World Series!
1. The Japanese Sex-Ed Book Printed On Toilet Paper
2. How Are Babies Made
3. It's Perfectly Normal