Erogenous zones ki jaankari tells us what the body’s sensitive spots are. But yeh toh theory lesson hai. What about the practicals boss?First point - remember each body is different and while some sexual things are commonly pleasurable, sex is not a Ctrl-X, Ctr-V business.And next point - here are a couple of DIY, body-type-no-bar cool techniques for erogenous explorations and learning.
Simple self-exploration by touching one’s naked body in different places, with varying pressure, rhythm, temperature, and patterns, to feel and understand better the sexually sensitive zones. This technique acknowledges that different strokes (like different hand-writing) work for different folks in different places.Did you know - people with multiple sclerosis, who experience a decrease in sexual sensitivity, find the technique helpful to identify arousing zones on their body. And maybe it’s a gentle post-trauma re-entry into sexualness too?
The Curiosity Connection
Don’t assume you already know another body - getting to know someone means being curious. about the body and spirit of someone, playfully and mutually finding what feels nice, meh or no-way to different people. So imagine that as part of touching and sex.Think of erogenous zones as alphabets spread all over the body, mind and heart. How you put these together in desire could make for a sizzling essay or shararti sher-o-shayari. Bole toh, with conscious effort and practice you can learn all you want about your zones or your partners’ and enjoy sex beyond intercourse.Body Mapping: Hand-made naksha
